Thursday, December 31, 2009

What is the best advice you can give a pregnant woman?

This is my first pregnancy. I'm 8 weeks and I'm clueless! I'm excited but nervous at the same time. Whats the best advice you can give me besides the obvious to take care of myself. BTW I'm 32 years old and i'm finally going to be a mom!!!! :D So excited!What is the best advice you can give a pregnant woman?
Just try to stay as stress free as possible and watch your diet. Every first time mom is excited and nervous at the same time. I'm 31 weeks and my little man is right around the corner, and I can't wait to see him yet so worried I'm going to do something wrong. Be happy and enjoy these next 9 months. Good luckWhat is the best advice you can give a pregnant woman?
First of all... CONGRATULATIONS!!





I have 4 children and the best advice I can give you is:


1.Listen to your instincts. If you think something is wrong, don't hesitate to go to the doctor and/or voice your opinion.


2. As much as they want to think so, doctors are not gods. If the doctor tells you something that you don't feel right about, find another one.


3.If you need help, don’t be too proud to ask.


4.Most importantly, love that baby with everything you have. It’s so worth it.
Relax! Enjoy every minute of watching your belly grow and make sure you take pictures. Have your significant other give you a foot rub every night, it feels great when your feet get swollen. OH! Go to babies r us, they give you a list of stuff to register for or buy and it really helped me out as I was clueless too. Some of the things are unnecessary but you can be the one to decide which ones are a must. Good luck and congratulations.
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Try to enjoy it, don't get too excited about seeing the baby. Pregnancy is hard, but enjoy every moment of it. Chances are, you won't be the lucky few who go early or on their due date. Don't be disappointed. Oh, and get a pedicure before you go into labor!
first things first CONGRATS!!!! my advice, any questions dont be afriad to ask your doctor... dont do any heavy lifting, dont put yourself in any stressful situations. make sure your not around smoke, for long periods of time, and mostly just enjoy your pregnancy =)
Try to relax as much as possible and enjoy your pregnancy. Take a lot of pictures so your baby can see how much you changed in the future. Being pregnant is hard at times but just enjoy it while you can its a great experience.
LoL The best advice I can give you is ';This too shall pass'; The ';joys'; of pregnancy suck sometimes but it goes by fast when you look back at it...looking forward at it, it takes FOREVER.





Good Luck!
Don't believe every commercial on tv. Do your research and don't be a blind sheep.
Go to bed early. Sleep in in the mornings. Take afternoon naps. Soon-----you'll be sleep deprived!
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  • What is the best advice you have ever received?

    It is said that an ignorant person doesn't learn from their own mistakes; an intelligent person learns from their own mistakes; a wise person learns from the mistakes of others.





    I have acquired an abundance of great advice in my mere 25 yrs of life, and I try to put it all in perspective, heeding to the guidlines and suggestions I feel will be good decisions to make in order to be the strong person I know I am, and always strive to gain strength and wisdom so I can share it with others.





    Advice can be good or bad.





    What is the best advice you have been given?What is the best advice you have ever received?
    Who cares what anyone thinks, if they don't like you, thats their problem!What is the best advice you have ever received?
    From my daddy..he told me


    ';believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see';


    I live by those words
    Do not judge a book by its cover. Great question
    Don't think just do if you think too much you wasting time thinking about what you could or should have done.
    Time is of the Essence

    What is the best advice to give to a sixteen year old girl?

    I'm 16, and I just wanted to know if anyone had good advice to give me about anything.What is the best advice to give to a sixteen year old girl?
    Make smart decisions about sex - if you don't have the money to pay for medical appointments and if you can't see yourself giving a baby up for adoption, it means you need to wait - because birth control isn't 100% effective.





    Get a job and pay for your own phone line and car insurance. Paying for these two bills now will help you become more responsible for the future.





    Take a few classes in high school that you enjoy, it's not all about college.





    Find a cause to volunteer for, even if it's only once a year.





    Read up on politics. You may not be old enough to vote in the next presidential election, but you are always old enough to let your opinion be known and stand up for what's right.





    Be a good neighbor to the cranky guy that lives down the street.What is the best advice to give to a sixteen year old girl?
    Don't be impatient and expect all of life's experiences to happen to you now. You have a long road ahead of you and many adventures to come. Let life unfold at its own pace
    Always be yourself.


    Hold your head high and always be peoud of yourself.


    Don't do anything tha makes you uncomfortable.


    Try not to give into peer pressure.


    Have a good time but be safe .


    Live your life to the fullest.


    Finish school,and above all else always know that the man up above is always there for you.


    GOOD LUCK in everything that you do.
    DON'T get PREGNANT! :) Barring that, don't have a baby! That'd be about it.
    Never confuse sex with love and if a boy ever says ';If you love me, you;d have sex with me.'; all he wants is the sex
    Yes....OMG...be money savvy! Know what you are doing with your money. If you get a credit card, get one with a small limit.
    Just enjoy being 16...it only happens once and there are too many people who will try to dictate what you should and shouldn't do. You are 16 and know the difference...listen to your brain.
    go out and live you life you only have one, that I know of. be careful and be safe. just be a kid and don't grow up too fast!
    From a fathers perspective ';every boy is in fact a pervert, and given opportunity they all want in your pants';
    Don't have sex and go to school, believe me you'll regret it.
    Seek the truth,inquire about about spiritual life.Use your time wisely because it goes so quick.


    The soul continuously passes from youth to old age,


    the soul passes into a new body at death.
    Don't have sex, if you do, make sure it's very protected. Do your best in school. Respect your parents (and all elders). Don't do drugs or alcohol.
    yesterday, today was tomorrow
    Hi I was 16 %26amp; can give advice lol.





    What type of advice do you want? It would help if you picked a topic. Sometimes what we (the answer group) think is good advice may not be...being u may disagree with us.





    So from having been 16--16 yrs ago, I can honestly say that what I think of good advice now, and from that time, are different.





    Now its what will benefit my situation %26amp; myself more %26amp; its ok if I don't agree with it if I think overall it may work.





    When I %26amp; Most ppl I knew when I was 16--if I didn't like it, didn't agree with it, or if it made me change who I thought I should be or act differently--well then it was bad advice.





    My pt? Sometimes its not the whether the advice is good or bad--sometimes its if you want to hear it.
    Well with a screen name like sexi mexi you are giving a bad impression about yourself. Especially asking that question in the pregnancy%26amp; Parenting section. I'm only 20 fixing to be 21 and I'm a mom. The advice I can give you is to be a virgin and be happy with it. Because a guy will respect you that much more. But If your not then you can begin to wait now. Because Nothing in this world is going to mean more than finding that one guy who aint just trying to get him a piece. You want that guy who loves and respects you. And lets just be real you can't respect somebody who has been around.. I just think you should give yourself the chance to find that love, so you don't get stuck with just some regular joe,ya know





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    Remember this, everything that happens before college is just practice. Don't take ANYTHING too seriously, and treat it all as a learning experience, from love to schoolwork on down.
    Don't have sex until you are out of school. It is not worth getting pregnant and giving up your education just to have a meaningless relationship with a boy.
    about what?


    there's a lot of stress, drama, and peer pressure that occurs in the high school stage.





    the best advice i have is: be yourself and if people don't like you 4 you then f'em. as long as u r happy w/urself that's all that matters.


    also, treat others as u would want them to treat u.





    get on birth control, even if ur not sexually active right now.





    a teacher once told me: 'it's easier to keep up than to catch up'. i wish i would've listened. i still graduated w/my class but i had to take over double the amount of classes than my fellow class mates.





    drive safe and watch out for mail boxes(they jump out of no where, i know)


    and when u do hit something, fess up. hit and runs don't help and u can't hide huge dents in the car even if no one sees who hit what to call the cops.





    hope this helps.
    Never EVER walk out alone when it's starting to get dark. I just had a horrible experience with it....

    What is the best advice for saving on electricity?

    What times are best to use your washer and dryer, and when is it safe to use lights and lamps etc.What is the best advice for saving on electricity?
    There are lots of ways to save by doing little things:


    -Change all your light bulbs to the efficient ones.


    -Turn your water heater down to about 120degrees Fahrenheit (because seriously, that's still hot enough for me and it saves you a bit on your bill).


    -Adjust your thermostat accordingly. When you're not at home, nobody's there to enjoy the air conditioner or heater anyway.


    -If you live by yourself, wash the dishes by hand or you can use the dishwasher but make sure you put a good load in it.


    -Do the same with your clothes. Do not overload the washing machines and dryer, but do a good load. I also thought about this the other day, maybe it's better to run the dryer for shorter amount of time during the hot summer day because it's easier for the machine to ';heat'; up the cycle.


    -Turn off all electronic when you're not using it. Keep in mind some things may still draw electricity even when it's not on. Some things like an adapter that lights up when it is plugged (that shows you that the light is getting a power source from somewhere).


    That's all I can think of. Good luck.What is the best advice for saving on electricity?
    In some countries people have smart meters and the electric companies charge a lower rate at night and other off peak times. Most places in the United States do not have this. You are charged the same rate no matter what time it is.





    There is usually no saftey concerns with poperly working lights and lamps.





    Air Conditioning is the biggest user of Electricity. Especially in Hot climates. Make sure all your windows and doors are sealed up good to keep the cool air in and the warm air out.
    The simplest way to save electricity is to turn off things that you aren't using. Don't leave lights burning when you leave a room. Turn off the air conditioner if you're gone for several hours. I stopped using my dishwasher and saved $20 per month immediately. Get compact florescent light bulbs. Turn off your computer if you aren't using it. All of these things add up - a few pennies at a time.
    after 8pm

    What is your best advice for being more patient?

    Generally in life I am just impatient. I want what I want when I want it. But as I get older I realize that is not always a possibility. I was not told no very often when I was a child so I think that contributes. What are some suggestions for keeping my cool when I can't have my way?What is your best advice for being more patient?
    give yourself a time-out. just take a couple minutes to relax, breathe, and either chill out or rationally think through what it is that isn't going your way. just tell yourself you need to take a 10 minute mental time out and patience will come.

    What is the best advice you can give your child?

    What do you feel is the best advice you can give your child? I'm a strong person, mentally and physically. My child who is 7 will know and understand how to never put up with an abusive person, or people are hateful to her. What is the best advice you can give your children?What is the best advice you can give your child?
    Treat others as you would want others to treat you.What is the best advice you can give your child?
    Tolerance of all races, compassion for fellow man. My 2 bits
    Walk into your path
    Always do for others that which you would expect them to do for you and if they do not appreciate it do not hold that against them for you are a better person for that.





    Have integrety and do what is right even though no one else is watching .
    Don't do anything you feel ashamed of
    Treat others as you would want to be treated and that sometimes just walking away is the most courageous way to deal with problem people.
    Your mind is like a parachute - It only functions when it is open. Also, teach her that although we all have different races, we all still come from the same race....the human race.

    What is the best advice anyone has ever given you?

    Just wondering, maybe one of your answers will actually be good advice for me too.What is the best advice anyone has ever given you?
    ''be who you are, say what you feel, those who mind dont matter, those who matter dont mind, small minds discuss people, average minds discuss events, great minds discuss ideas, when you were born you were crying and everyone around you was smiling, live your life so that when you die you are smiling and everyone around you is crying''What is the best advice anyone has ever given you?
    ';the true measure of a man,is how he treats someone who is absoultly useless to him';


    - (i forgot)





    but this quote really got me to start being nicer to ppl i wouldnt have looked at before....i mean if you cant spread a little kindness in this world then what the hell ya know LOL


    have a great day :)
    Love unconditionally. If you hate people all your life then that's a waste. In my opinion love is the strangest abilities given to us, so we should use it. Learn to forgive, but don't forget.
    While at a social gathering, never talk about religion or politics.
    Don't give advice unless you're asked for one.
    Never waste your time on ignorant people





    or





    never miss a good chance to shut up
    ';Be ye kind.';
    ';If you can't do someone a good turn, don't do them a bad turn';.
    In our life we may have to answer to many people, but there is one you MUST always answer to and that is yourself.
    If you believe it, it will be.
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  • What's the best advice for starting a relationship?

    I like a certain girl and I want to start a relationship with her. The thing is I don't know if she like's me or not. What should I do?What's the best advice for starting a relationship?
    just start talking to her, and see what she is interested in(that's a great convo starter). if she likes you would tell from how she talks to you. give her compliments too!What's the best advice for starting a relationship?
    Women practice dismissal, fear, and preoccupation. Men need an opening line, small talk, and to close with getting a telephone number or a date. The number one dating advice for women is ';play hard to get';.





    Obese women, (that are secretly 50% of the population), have immature hysteria that causes delirium in good looking women. The environments in this society are .1% good looking women.





    There are 21 organizations spying on the population with plain clothes agents. No one has ever seen the start of a relationship.
    the best thing to do is to just talk to her and be yourself. start out as friends and gradually move on in your relationship when you guys are ready.





    the dumbest thing people do is go too fast with an intimate relationship, and then they wonder why it fell apart.
    ask her out(: orrr ask one of her friends to talk about you and then you can see if she likes you!
    BE HONEST. A LIE NOW WILL GET YOU LATER/

    What is the best advice you have ever received?

    Just curious! What is the best advice that you ever received? Who was it from? The best advice I have received is every day is a gift, not a given right. I got that from a Nickelback song! LOL!What is the best advice you have ever received?
    ';never play leap frog with a unicorn';What is the best advice you have ever received?
    The best advice I've ever received was from a dude that was in the Army that came to our school over a period of several weeks. He taught us about leadership skills, communication, and getting to your goals. He told me that I would make a great leader, but I wasn't doing it, and he told me that if I don't lead long enough, then someone is going to rob me of that opportunity. He told me that one on one.


    Another piece of advice he told all of us: If you have the opportunity to do something, take it. Also, don't talk bad about your boss.
    ';when you turn 16 and learn to drive then do whatever the **** you wanna do.';


    from my mom,and it was a good thing i waited to be independent at this age cause im more calm and less crazy.


    :D
    ';Procrastination is like masturbating, feels good at first but then you realize you're just screwing yourself.'; - My best friend
    Mine was from a Creedence song:





    Someday never comes.





    Don't pass up a hug or the chance to tell someone you care...';someday'; might be too late.
    This is what my friend told me once... Be yourself if you try to be popular the less popular you'll be and come on who whats to be like them damn *** hoes!!!!
    ';you need to calm the f**k down!';


    LOL
    If you don't toot your own horn, no one is will!
    /Me -Life is hard.


    Bestfriend - Only if you make it.
    sh!t happens.


    well thats not the best advice....


    haha but it true.
    JUST TELL HIM HOW U FEEL
    slap the girl with your big juicy dick

    College students and grads! What is the best advice you would give to a high schooler?

    What do you think were the most impressive/important highlights of your high school career? If you were to give advice to an incoming sophomore in high school, what would you say?





    If you don't mind me asking, if you went to a college with a scholarship or were accepted to a prestigious college, what do you think your best asset was?College students and grads! What is the best advice you would give to a high schooler?
    You should know that it's not just one asset that makes a person good -- it's the overall well-roundedness of such a person that gets them into the finer of institutions.





    College admissions folk will tell you that you shouldn't view high school as a game -- you should extracurriculars just because you like to do them. Stanford's Dean, for instance, suggested such a thing. As good advice as that is, you really should go out of your way to stack -everything-.





    Take every hard course within reason, do as many extracurriculars without it looking outrageous (you don't want to be presidenting 50 clubs), and study your butt off.





    My best asset is that I was 4th of 316, minority status, essay reflecting such a status, extracurricular activities, and leadership. My SAT scores were pretty lousy -- 1370.





    Hope this helps.College students and grads! What is the best advice you would give to a high schooler?
    The best advice I could give you is to always be true to yourself and put your best effort forward in everything you do.





    To a sophomore in HS I would say, ';Do not let your friends distract you! Focus on what you want to be and do with your life. Even though you are young, it all starts now. Make sure you give your best in everything so that you never become disappointed in yourself. The worst feeling in the world is being disappointed in yourself.';





    I think that if you are looking to impress a prestigious institution then make sure you take courses that apply to what you plan on doing, courses that are challenging, make sure you get great grades, make sure you participate in some extra curricular activities, but not just in school, also in the community. And demonstrate confidence in yourself!!! :) Good Luck to you!
    Make sure you actually read your book .. and your best asset is how well you can sell yourself !
    cptcharcoal has said almost everythign that I wanted to, however, I'll add something to the ';Don't get distracted by friends'; thing.





    I'm a second year college student now, and as such I have stayed away from my family for a cumulative period of around three years now, in different places.The one thing I advice to people when they are moving to a different location is to remember what you are there for.





    You need not force your way into things, should not try to make things hapeen when those things happen on their own. For example, if ou can open up to strangers or talk to classmates whom you've never known before, you'll make friends in a very continuos manner. The problem is, people just dont get it. They approach people with the intention of making friends, make it awkward for them and then end up hurting themselves.





    Take that as a metaphor, even for studies. ';You have to study your butt off'; - I agree with that, but study in a manner which relates to you. If it's an additional task, you won't want to do it anyways! So, for example, if you are studying calculus, don't just limit yourself to doing a hundred problems a day. Change your surfing habbits - try to read related info about it. There are hundreds of challenging problems archive. Even if you read just one such problem a week, over a course of time, it'll just change your way of thinking. The thought process will change.





    ON similar lines, if your course is related to screenplay/storytelling etc. why not remember that when you watch television. For example, I can tell u for sure that most of the time, the story in a good/bad movie/series can be very similar, its just the treatment and presentation that makes the difference. So, you might watch Dr. House M.D. once, and then when you watch something else try to recall if its saying the samething as House, and try to find out why the impact of the dialogue/story etc. wasnt the same as House.





    Extracurriculars are there for you to break free, to do what you want to. Only advice I can give you is not to use them to distinguish yourself from others or for additional points on the resume.

    What is your best advice for sustaining a long-distance relationship?

    We've been together 8 months, and are going to be in 10th grade, well...we're insanely in love, talk on the phone for about 2 hours each night, hang out each weekend, but i'm moving 45 mins away and don't want to grow apart from him. tips?What is your best advice for sustaining a long-distance relationship?
    Letters!





    Not mushy ';I love you, I miss you, I need you'; letters, but sweet, friendly letters that say, ';I'm interested in your day, your likes and dislikes, and your hopes for the future.';





    You can tell him about what you're doing to keep busy this summer. Do you have a job? Do you go to the pool with your friends? Have you seen any good movies lately? What did you think of ';UP';? Are you learning anything new at home, such as cooking new foods or how to iron clothes? And so forth and so on.





    The interesting details of everyday life will give him a clearer picture of you than emotional outpourings ever would. Putting pen to paper will give him something of you to hold on to and read over again and again.





    I don't have to remind you to put nothing in your letters that you wouldn't mind having your folks or his folks read, do I? It would be so embarrassing to have private details bared to the world!





    It's nice that you can get together for weekend dates, and you're lucky to have the kind of phone service where you don't have to mind your minutes. But my advice is, talk and sigh less, and correspond more.

    What is the best advice for teen self mutilation?

    Give the best advice possible for a teen involved in self mutilation.





    Best answer will be chosen approximately in one hour.





    Thanks,


    VioletWhat is the best advice for teen self mutilation?
    It's not worth it,life is rough but you have to be driven by suffering and use it as strength,dont let it run you or ruin you,down the road you have to look at the scars and be reminded of it,better to leave that in the past and live for now,keep your head up because you're not aloneWhat is the best advice for teen self mutilation?
    they don't need advice, they need someone to listen and take the blade out of their hand, be there at 3am when they need someone.





    and every cutter/burner/self harmer is genuine this label 'emo' is a burden! people brush off others now cause they're 'emo' but noone ever asks WHY ARE THEY 'EMO'. people don't seak attention if they don't need it.
    Stop following the emo movement. Seek the attention you deserve in positive ways. Self-mutilation (genuine) occurs in a very small percentage of the population and is indicative of serious mental illess. If it's real, get to a hospital immediately. If it's not, knock it off. It's not cool and you look really stupid. If you don't know what to do with yourself and must imitate something, imitate something better, like Nobel prize winners.
    Tell her that you care and don't like to see her hurt herself. If it's incredibly serious (well, scratch that. It's always serious. If you're majorly concerned), then tell someone. Other than that, just leave them alone. Your admonishments and backhand comments meant to make them feel better will probably hurt them worse.
    Stop yourself or just control it...don't cut too deep or too much and give it time to heal. I'm not promoting cutting - although i'm an on and off cutter - but seriously, people get cut even if its not you doing it. sometimes you have to let your emotions out - cutting is a seminonviolent way of doing this.
    Live outside yourself. You get so focused on your own misery and hatred you forget that theres a world out there full of people who's lives depend on who has interacted with them that day.





    Everyone on the planet has problems, everyone is ******* up, everyone sucks, everyone is ugly, everyone is messed up. No problem is so unique that only you are suffering from it.





    Get out and help other people, even if its just complimenting someone on their hair. You'd be surpised what it does for them, and how good it makes you feel.
    Well, Its an addiction, and Its quite hard to control urges and anything that has to deal with it.


    But the best possible thing, is keep sharp objects away, (example: my parents keep all the household knives in their room)


    Try and Keep yourself occupied with either anything else that intersts you, or find another psyical outlet.


    I cut crass, i do pushups, i hit a punching bag...


    Theres things u can do, because when it comes to self mutilation, talking doesnt always help. But Constantly stay busy, and away from anything that u may be tempted by.


    Thats what ive been doing and it seems to work...i dont talk to poeple about it usually, so physical activity is the one that works the best. Its been about 6 month for me...so i hope i helped. :)


    Good Luck.

    What is your best advice for other brides planning a wedding?

    Whether you are in the midst of wedding planning now, or were happily wedded years ago, what tips, ideas or advice can you share with other brides? What do you wish you had done differently, or what are you glad you did? What unique, personal touches did you include in your own wedding? Do you have any cool ideas on: party favors, wedding party gifts, bridesmaids attire, invitations/programs, child attendants, showers/bachelor(ette) parties, the ceremony/vows/etc, wedding cake, photography/videography, the honeymoon? (These are just 'prompts' to spark your memory - you don't have to answer them all!!) I am finishing my wedding planner/workbook and would like to include tips from real-life brides. Your input and ideas would be a huge help!!What is your best advice for other brides planning a wedding?
    First off, congratulations on your upcoming marriage! May you have a healthy, happy union.





    After being very happily married for 18+ years, my advise is this: You don't want the wedding to overshadow the marriage. A wedding is just for 1 day, but your marriage should last your lifetime. Rule number 1: Don't sweat the small stuff. Rule number 2: It's all small stuff. Don't get so wrapped up in the knitty gritty of wedding planning that you forget the most important reason which is why you're there in the first place. Good luck and best wishes to you both!What is your best advice for other brides planning a wedding?
    Not from me personally, but my friend was so rushed trying to get everything done that she didn't have time to enjoy her wedding.





    My advice would be to plan every detail way in advance and make sure that you have someone that you totally trust to handle things on the actual day, so you don't have to think about anything, and you can enjoy your day in peace.
    I just got married on June 3, 2006.


    I would say that


    1) Developing a budget saves a lot of stress


    2) Decide what YOU want before you start talking to family members and your bridal party. Otherwise, everyone has some kind of problem with your choices.


    3) Take care of everything as soon as you can. Make your favors early, make your programs early, anything that can be done in advance, do it! Don't waste too much time and then spend the week before your wedding scrambling to get things done.


    4) Don't choose people for your bridal party who are irresponsible! It will save you so much grief!
    if u r having music.


    u want to make sure u know what u want.





    i play violin at weddings and alot of the time the bride and groom dont know what they want...





    it is very annoying when people r going back nd forth for bout 15 20 min





    soo u need to plan out what u exactly want and figure out how u want the bridesmaids to walk down and the grooms men to walk ...alll before the reshersal for the wedding ...sooo things willl go smoothly
    First and foremost, determine who is paying and who is the final decision-maker. This will eliminate unnecessary arguments and provide some guidance. Second, plan ahead! Don't wait until the last minute to get things done. Plan early so you can enjoy yourself. Third, when picking out favors, remember that a lot of times they are left behind, but if you choose something that is edible, i.e. chocolates, cookies, wine, the favors will be worth the money spent.
    Remember the mantra. No matter what obstacles you face, what trauma comes your way, repeat this phrase and smile, ';When this is done, I am going to be Mrs. (insert groom's name here).'; The rest is just trimming.





    (And, ask a friend to have a car waiting, with a full tank of gas, to be the get away driver%26gt; This is just in case you change your mind at the last minute. Knowing that you have options is calming.)
    Get very familiar with theknot.com, they were a huge help to me. They will walk you through every step up until your big day. I tried to focus on the big picture like, how happy my fiancee and I were going to be together instead of getting cought up in all the details. Be patient with your friends and family, they will give tons of uninvited suggestions, but even though it is annoying, remember they mean well. We had all our married relatives bring framed pics of their wedding and displayed them on the cake table, everyone felt included and loved seeing their photo on our table. For favors, stick with food, everyone loves to eat and the little trinkets just get thrown away. For bridesmaids gifts try to do something different and personal for each girl. For example, if one girl likes shopping give her giftcards to her favorite stores, or if a girl likes cooking give her cooking supplies or cooking classes. They will appreciate being treated as individuals. invitationsbydawn.com has great, economic invites.Congrats and good luck.
    Congratulations! The only thing that you have to remember is that this day is only about you and your husband to be, no one else. Just relax %26amp; try to focus on the reason you fell in love in the first place. That will help you stay calm and help you to remember why your really doing this to begin with. I wish I had more of a hand in planning my wedding though, things were nothing like I wanted them. Make sure that you dont settle for something you dont really care for. You'll end up regretting it later. It's your wedding and your choice. What you say goes. GoodLuck!
    Plan, plan, plan. Try to think of any and everything that is involved in any wedding you have gone to. Make an outline, keep all of your notes together in one booklet, hold on to it for dear life. Good planning will lead to no ';ooops, we forgot'; on the wedding day. Try to have everything lined out at least two weeks prior to the wedding. Take everyone into consideration, from fiance', yours/his parents, your/his friends, relatives. It's your day, it's your way but don't make decisions that you will regret for the rest of your life. Be considerate. .
    Buy a wedding planner. It will be your best friend though out the whole roller coaster ride. It will keep you right on track as far as which items you should have by a certain time frame. It will help you answer questions like ';When should we get fitted for our rings?'; or ';What would be the best order for the wedding party to enter and exit the ceremony?';
    I have one tip.





    My wedding was in 2004.





    Instead of place cards and favors, we had a bunch of blank CD's made with our names, the date and a picture on it. Then we burned 10-12 songs that meant a lot to my husband and I on it. I put the CD's in semi-clear envelopes and slid in a card that I printed out with the same picture on it and the couples name and the word table on it. Then when we did table seating, my mom and I just wrote in marker the table number and we slid them into the sleeve with the CD. They were on the table near the guest book, and couples picked up the CD and knew where they sat. I got a lot of complements on the table card/favor.





    My sister just got engaged and I can't wait to help her plan her wedding. I would love to be a wedding planner.
    PLAN





    The bigger the production the more that can go wrong





    Delegate ...... Wisely





    PLAN





    Get your friends and family involved.





    Remember your Mum just wants the best for you





    No. He doesn't understand, but he loves you and is still trying





    PLAN





    Chose a theme. Colour or style. Stick to it





    Eat the reception food before the wedding so you know if it sucks





    PLAN





    Have a backup plan





    Find your most Anal obsessive friend. Recruit them.....Very good at details.





    Allocate a budget. Stick to it





    Remember it is just 1 day and you have the rest of your lives together. What is more important a dress you will wear once or a house?





    Did I mention you should PLAN
    As a wedding vendor, you have a vested interest in fostering the ';It's YOUR day for your DREAM wedding; do WHATEVER you want!'; attitude and it's attendant orgy of self-indulgence and overspending. So you may not like advice from a Higher Authority, in the person of Judith Manners (aka Miss Manners). But I will post it here in the hope that a few brides will use their heads for something besides holding a veil up.





    You, out there in Brideland, you sweet thing ... Are you planning your wedding so that it will be perfect in every detail? Do you expect it to be the happiest day of your life? Miss Manners sincerely hopes not.





    Few of those who prattle about that ';happiest day'; seem to consider the dour expectations this suggests about the marriage from its second day on. They don't realize that a wedding reception is basically a large party, and is therefore not perfectible because there are too variables, not to mention too many people who one thought would not accept the invitation. At any rate, someone whose idea of ultimate happiness is a day spent at a big party, even spent being the center of attention at a very marvelous big party, is too immature to get married.





    This notion of a wedding persists, often working directly against the purpose of a wedding, which is to create a new family, and not to put cracks and strains in old ones. Miss Manners' advice to young brides is to plan weddings that will be pretty and festive, but not to attempt to make them grand on a scale unrelated to the rest of their lives, and not to expect them to be perfect. Many an otherwise lovely bride has turned ugly attempting to create a ';dream'; occasion and to make everyone else conform with her conception of their roles in it.





    A warning that one has strayed too far afield is an excessive preoccupation with everything's being done ';right';. Weddings are rare events in most people's lives, and Miss Manners has no objections to the participants' seeking advice on correct form. She dispenses such advice herself, right and left. But if one needs professional direction -- not just help or advice -- in every aspect of the wedding, it may mean that one hs wondered into completely foreign social territory and should think about heading home. One's wedding should be a heightened version of one's best social life, not an occasion for people to attempt to play grand and unfamiliar roles in a fantasy play.





    Another warning about expecting a perfect day is that this carries a built-in potential for disappointment. (There are adults who go through life expecting other people to make their birthdays perfect for them and if you ever meet one of these, watch out. Nothing will ever be enough for them.)





    What Miss Manners wishes all brides is NOT the happiest days of their lives, but a jolly gathering of family and friends, in which they are the object of general admiration but EVERYONE has a good time. They will then have some happiness left over with which to live happily every after.
    You do NOT have to spend a million dollars (figurativly speaking of course) to have a wonderful day. Remember, this is the first day of the rest of your life.





    Write your own vows. They mean the most to you.





    Have children involved! They are SO cute.





    Make sure to get a great photographer. When the wedding is over, all you have left is the marriage and the pics! But do not break the bank....there are many individuals and companies out there that dont charge an arm and a leg.





    Good Luck!
    i was married last sept best advice go to weddingchannals.com is awesome site......... also be sure an take time fer jus u each day...... the last week fer sure...... pamper yurself mornin of yur wedding...... an relax an lov da day....
    DETERMINE YOUR BUDGET AND STAY WITHIN IT
    Just two tips, make sure to delegate some things, this will take some of the stress off of you, and will keep some people (especially moms) from feeling left out. Buy some of those disposible cameras to put on the tables at the reception, and ask your guests to take pictures of each other. There is always someone that you wish the photographer had captured, but by the time you see your wedding proofs, it is too late. Most of all, have fun! Congrats!
    I just got married on May 6th of this year. After it is over now I have a lot of things i would have done differantly....Make sure you have a babysitter if you already have kids...and not one who is staying for the reception. Have someone cater and decorate...it was less expensive but more stressful! Dont stress out about everything! Have a honeymoon and ENJOY YOUR DAY! it will be over in an instant make the best of it.....if you stress out about everything youll miss the fun! My wedding ceremony was perfect! The only thing I would have changed is my reception. My family didnt get to enjoy it because they were cleaning up the food and all that. MAKE SURE YOU HAVE SOME ONE CATER that will do everything....cleaning up and all!
    Recent wedding experiences included lousy food (many guests were vomiting a few hours after) and a photographer who didn't notice that the cap was on the lens until the wedding reception was nearly over! Both brides were devastated! Hope this helps and gives you a few ideas. (1) have more cameras and take additional photos besides your hired photographer and (2) check out the food PRIOR to your wedding. Good luck.
    always keep your budget in mind and never try to go over it or you will find yourself in debt real fast
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    This is my first pregnancy. I'm 8 weeks and I'm clueless! I'm excited but nervous at the same time. Whats the best advice you can give me besides the obvious to take care of myself. BTW I'm 32 years old and i'm finally going to be a mom!!!! :D So excited!What is the best advice you can give a pregnant woman?
    Just try to stay as stress free as possible and watch your diet. Every first time mom is excited and nervous at the same time. I'm 31 weeks and my little man is right around the corner, and I can't wait to see him yet so worried I'm going to do something wrong. Be happy and enjoy these next 9 months. Good luckWhat is the best advice you can give a pregnant woman?
    First of all... CONGRATULATIONS!!





    I have 4 children and the best advice I can give you is:


    1.Listen to your instincts. If you think something is wrong, don't hesitate to go to the doctor and/or voice your opinion.


    2. As much as they want to think so, doctors are not gods. If the doctor tells you something that you don't feel right about, find another one.


    3.If you need help, don’t be too proud to ask.


    4.Most importantly, love that baby with everything you have. It’s so worth it.
    Relax! Enjoy every minute of watching your belly grow and make sure you take pictures. Have your significant other give you a foot rub every night, it feels great when your feet get swollen. OH! Go to babies r us, they give you a list of stuff to register for or buy and it really helped me out as I was clueless too. Some of the things are unnecessary but you can be the one to decide which ones are a must. Good luck and congratulations.
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    Try to enjoy it, don't get too excited about seeing the baby. Pregnancy is hard, but enjoy every moment of it. Chances are, you won't be the lucky few who go early or on their due date. Don't be disappointed. Oh, and get a pedicure before you go into labor!
    first things first CONGRATS!!!! my advice, any questions dont be afriad to ask your doctor... dont do any heavy lifting, dont put yourself in any stressful situations. make sure your not around smoke, for long periods of time, and mostly just enjoy your pregnancy =)
    Try to relax as much as possible and enjoy your pregnancy. Take a lot of pictures so your baby can see how much you changed in the future. Being pregnant is hard at times but just enjoy it while you can its a great experience.
    LoL The best advice I can give you is ';This too shall pass'; The ';joys'; of pregnancy suck sometimes but it goes by fast when you look back at it...looking forward at it, it takes FOREVER.





    Good Luck!
    Don't believe every commercial on tv. Do your research and don't be a blind sheep.
    Go to bed early. Sleep in in the mornings. Take afternoon naps. Soon-----you'll be sleep deprived!

    What is the best advice you have ever received?

    It is said that an ignorant person doesn't learn from their own mistakes; an intelligent person learns from their own mistakes; a wise person learns from the mistakes of others.





    I have acquired an abundance of great advice in my mere 25 yrs of life, and I try to put it all in perspective, heeding to the guidlines and suggestions I feel will be good decisions to make in order to be the strong person I know I am, and always strive to gain strength and wisdom so I can share it with others.





    Advice can be good or bad.





    What is the best advice you have been given?What is the best advice you have ever received?
    Who cares what anyone thinks, if they don't like you, thats their problem!What is the best advice you have ever received?
    From my daddy..he told me


    ';believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see';


    I live by those words
    Do not judge a book by its cover. Great question
    Don't think just do if you think too much you wasting time thinking about what you could or should have done.
    Time is of the Essence

    What is the best advice to give to a sixteen year old girl?

    I'm 16, and I just wanted to know if anyone had good advice to give me about anything.What is the best advice to give to a sixteen year old girl?
    Make smart decisions about sex - if you don't have the money to pay for medical appointments and if you can't see yourself giving a baby up for adoption, it means you need to wait - because birth control isn't 100% effective.





    Get a job and pay for your own phone line and car insurance. Paying for these two bills now will help you become more responsible for the future.





    Take a few classes in high school that you enjoy, it's not all about college.





    Find a cause to volunteer for, even if it's only once a year.





    Read up on politics. You may not be old enough to vote in the next presidential election, but you are always old enough to let your opinion be known and stand up for what's right.





    Be a good neighbor to the cranky guy that lives down the street.What is the best advice to give to a sixteen year old girl?
    Don't be impatient and expect all of life's experiences to happen to you now. You have a long road ahead of you and many adventures to come. Let life unfold at its own pace
    Always be yourself.


    Hold your head high and always be peoud of yourself.


    Don't do anything tha makes you uncomfortable.


    Try not to give into peer pressure.


    Have a good time but be safe .


    Live your life to the fullest.


    Finish school,and above all else always know that the man up above is always there for you.


    GOOD LUCK in everything that you do.
    DON'T get PREGNANT! :) Barring that, don't have a baby! That'd be about it.
    Never confuse sex with love and if a boy ever says ';If you love me, you;d have sex with me.'; all he wants is the sex
    Yes....OMG...be money savvy! Know what you are doing with your money. If you get a credit card, get one with a small limit.
    Just enjoy being 16...it only happens once and there are too many people who will try to dictate what you should and shouldn't do. You are 16 and know the difference...listen to your brain.
    go out and live you life you only have one, that I know of. be careful and be safe. just be a kid and don't grow up too fast!
    From a fathers perspective ';every boy is in fact a pervert, and given opportunity they all want in your pants';
    Don't have sex and go to school, believe me you'll regret it.
    Seek the truth,inquire about about spiritual life.Use your time wisely because it goes so quick.


    The soul continuously passes from youth to old age,


    the soul passes into a new body at death.
    Don't have sex, if you do, make sure it's very protected. Do your best in school. Respect your parents (and all elders). Don't do drugs or alcohol.
    yesterday, today was tomorrow
    Hi I was 16 %26amp; can give advice lol.





    What type of advice do you want? It would help if you picked a topic. Sometimes what we (the answer group) think is good advice may not be...being u may disagree with us.





    So from having been 16--16 yrs ago, I can honestly say that what I think of good advice now, and from that time, are different.





    Now its what will benefit my situation %26amp; myself more %26amp; its ok if I don't agree with it if I think overall it may work.





    When I %26amp; Most ppl I knew when I was 16--if I didn't like it, didn't agree with it, or if it made me change who I thought I should be or act differently--well then it was bad advice.





    My pt? Sometimes its not the whether the advice is good or bad--sometimes its if you want to hear it.
    Well with a screen name like sexi mexi you are giving a bad impression about yourself. Especially asking that question in the pregnancy%26amp; Parenting section. I'm only 20 fixing to be 21 and I'm a mom. The advice I can give you is to be a virgin and be happy with it. Because a guy will respect you that much more. But If your not then you can begin to wait now. Because Nothing in this world is going to mean more than finding that one guy who aint just trying to get him a piece. You want that guy who loves and respects you. And lets just be real you can't respect somebody who has been around.. I just think you should give yourself the chance to find that love, so you don't get stuck with just some regular joe,ya know





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    Remember this, everything that happens before college is just practice. Don't take ANYTHING too seriously, and treat it all as a learning experience, from love to schoolwork on down.
    Don't have sex until you are out of school. It is not worth getting pregnant and giving up your education just to have a meaningless relationship with a boy.
    about what?


    there's a lot of stress, drama, and peer pressure that occurs in the high school stage.





    the best advice i have is: be yourself and if people don't like you 4 you then f'em. as long as u r happy w/urself that's all that matters.


    also, treat others as u would want them to treat u.





    get on birth control, even if ur not sexually active right now.





    a teacher once told me: 'it's easier to keep up than to catch up'. i wish i would've listened. i still graduated w/my class but i had to take over double the amount of classes than my fellow class mates.





    drive safe and watch out for mail boxes(they jump out of no where, i know)


    and when u do hit something, fess up. hit and runs don't help and u can't hide huge dents in the car even if no one sees who hit what to call the cops.





    hope this helps.
    Never EVER walk out alone when it's starting to get dark. I just had a horrible experience with it....

    What is the best advice for saving on electricity?

    What times are best to use your washer and dryer, and when is it safe to use lights and lamps etc.What is the best advice for saving on electricity?
    There are lots of ways to save by doing little things:


    -Change all your light bulbs to the efficient ones.


    -Turn your water heater down to about 120degrees Fahrenheit (because seriously, that's still hot enough for me and it saves you a bit on your bill).


    -Adjust your thermostat accordingly. When you're not at home, nobody's there to enjoy the air conditioner or heater anyway.


    -If you live by yourself, wash the dishes by hand or you can use the dishwasher but make sure you put a good load in it.


    -Do the same with your clothes. Do not overload the washing machines and dryer, but do a good load. I also thought about this the other day, maybe it's better to run the dryer for shorter amount of time during the hot summer day because it's easier for the machine to ';heat'; up the cycle.


    -Turn off all electronic when you're not using it. Keep in mind some things may still draw electricity even when it's not on. Some things like an adapter that lights up when it is plugged (that shows you that the light is getting a power source from somewhere).


    That's all I can think of. Good luck.What is the best advice for saving on electricity?
    In some countries people have smart meters and the electric companies charge a lower rate at night and other off peak times. Most places in the United States do not have this. You are charged the same rate no matter what time it is.





    There is usually no saftey concerns with poperly working lights and lamps.





    Air Conditioning is the biggest user of Electricity. Especially in Hot climates. Make sure all your windows and doors are sealed up good to keep the cool air in and the warm air out.
    The simplest way to save electricity is to turn off things that you aren't using. Don't leave lights burning when you leave a room. Turn off the air conditioner if you're gone for several hours. I stopped using my dishwasher and saved $20 per month immediately. Get compact florescent light bulbs. Turn off your computer if you aren't using it. All of these things add up - a few pennies at a time.
    after 8pm

    What is your best advice for being more patient?

    Generally in life I am just impatient. I want what I want when I want it. But as I get older I realize that is not always a possibility. I was not told no very often when I was a child so I think that contributes. What are some suggestions for keeping my cool when I can't have my way?What is your best advice for being more patient?
    give yourself a time-out. just take a couple minutes to relax, breathe, and either chill out or rationally think through what it is that isn't going your way. just tell yourself you need to take a 10 minute mental time out and patience will come.

    What is the best advice to me when I fill out papers for helping someone in Arkansas get Clemency?

    What is the most vital part of what I must do?What is the best advice to me when I fill out papers for helping someone in Arkansas get Clemency?
    Why does this person need Clemency??? Why should they get it??? why is it your supporting them??, Why is this person not guilty.
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  • What is the best advice anyone has ever given you?

    What is the best advice anyone has ever given you?


    Or..If you could go back in time, what advice would you give yourself as a teenager?





    Thank You So Much!What is the best advice anyone has ever given you?
    -Live each day like if it was your last





    -Dont bother falling for someone if you know they arent gonna catch you





    -Be yourself





    Hope This Helped When Im Still Younge So I Hope It DidWhat is the best advice anyone has ever given you?
    Pray hard, work hard, play hard (enjoy life) and treat others the way you want to be treated.
    That trying to please everyone will only frustrate me and disappoint everyone anyway.





    If I could go back in time and tell my teenage self anything, I'd say: ';Don't stay in retail jobs because you don't think you're good enough for anything bigger or better - retail will kill your faith in humanity and wreck your back, legs, and feet. Go take a leap of faith in yourself and get that office job!';





    :)

    What is the best advice you could give to someone?

    Any word of wisdom that you want to pass on? Any personal experiences that go along with it?What is the best advice you could give to someone?
    Always look for something positive in every situation, no matter how small it is and focus on it. After a while you will automatically find something positive no matter what the situation and you will be a more positive person and a better person for it and it will make life easier for youWhat is the best advice you could give to someone?
    Don't take time for granted and put off today what you can do tomorrow. Tomorrow may never come.


    Treat others as you would like to be treated, even if they are not nice to you.


    Love your family and friends and keep them close. You never know when you may need them or they may need you.


    Don't walk alone in this world. It's a long trip that way.
    ';If you're tired, you should stay at home.';





    When I was in Florida, my grandpa was in New York and he was planning to stop somewhere near the World Trade Center on September 11th, 2001. Sometime early in the day.
    Honesty is the best policy.


    But follow it to the extent easily affordable in real life and never let it slip out of your hands.
    Learn . read all the knowledge you can get your hands on . For knowledge is power .
    live as if you were to die tomorrow, learn as if you were to live forever............
    Live every day as if it's your last - one day it will be.
    Always trust your gut instinct.
    relax nothing is as big of deal as u think it is
    it's better to listen than to talk.
    go and die because the answer to life is death

    What is the best advice you ever received?

    It can be about any subject or matter.What is the best advice you ever received?
    Before you think of marrying a woman look at and listen to her mother first then add twenty five years.





    Not married. Sound advice.What is the best advice you ever received?
    '' pay attention to every detail, and you would find the missing link.''


    best advice i ever received,and it works..!
    The best advice I ever received is to never look for trouble. Do not try to taste drug and never smoke. Do not bully people.
    Mine was; exercise every day.


    Because our bodies age every day. We get weaker, and older, day after day.


    Exercise keeps our bodies strong and healthy.
    don't you put it in your mouth
    Be Yourself
    Never eat yellow snow.
    ';This too shall pass.';
    Don't buy a smart car
    Wrap it up..
    always be yourself, and do your best.
    to stop believing my thoughts

    What is the best advice for a 9th grader who wants to be a doctor?

    Any advice about medical school, preaparation, etc would be welcome.What is the best advice for a 9th grader who wants to be a doctor?
    Make sure you are going into it for the right reasons not just because of status or to please family. You need to examine if you have the characteristics to be a good doctor.





    Think about what a real good doctor should be like....do you display these qualities..





    If you don't hey it doesn't matter you will discover what you are good at and interested in only then will you discover what


    your personality traits will lead to.





    THINK ABOUT IT !!!!What is the best advice for a 9th grader who wants to be a doctor?
    Volunteer for some kind of healthcare center. Earn good grades (don't cheat). Learn yoga and/or meditation now so it will be easier to handle stress later.
    You must have lots of patients.
    work hard at your studies, research which subjects you need to became a doctor.


    get all your homework done on time and try hard at everything you do.
    Study hard, and pay attention. Do your best to get good grades. If possible, volunteer at a hospital or nursing home to get an idea of the way they work. Good luck!
    get lots oif highers..especially ijn scientific subjects
    study intensely,acheve highest grades, and pursue a selected course work regimen which will progress toward your desired goal completion!!!
    GET GOOD GRADES NOW...because believe it or not, they actually look at your high school transcripts when applying to med schools.
    definitely good grades

    What is the best advice you were ever given about money?

    Or what is the best quote you have read about money?What is the best advice you were ever given about money?
    Well, I was going to say that if you invest $5 every week for your children they should have enough money for college, BUT...





    Now I think COOKIE's advice is the best I've heard!What is the best advice you were ever given about money?
    It's not how much you have now,It's how much you save!
    save save save!!
    Create passive income
    There's no such thing as a free lunch.
    The more you have the more you want...


    and when you find a penny on the ground...it's a Penny from Heaven.
    Never lend money to black people, because you won't get it back.
    Money is the dirtiest thing in the world because it has been in the hands of millions.
    I heard it in a book on parenting I read in high school:





    ';Give 10%, save 10%, and spend the rest with thanksgiving.';





    But, the second best one is, ';Start saving for your retirement early. With the power of compounding, the money you save at your youngest is the money that will make you comfortable when you're old.';
    Buy only what you can afford. Try pay mostly in cash if able. Be cautious with credit cards. Of course, can't always pay cash in full, but I grew up hating debt.
    save for a rainy day
    save, save save.......Try to save 12% of your income annually. Put a large part into CD's and stagger the maturity dates...the rest put into the stock market in Exchage Traded Funds (ETF's) such as SPY.





    Good Luck!
    My papa taught us....





    When buying something...


    always figure out how many long hours


    you would have to work to purchase an item


    and decide if it is worth your long hours of labor.





    for example....say I make $5 an hour.


    I want a CD of my fav band. It costs $20.00.


    It's my fav group and I would listen to it all the time...


    so yes, it is worth it.





    or,


    I'm going out on a special date with a special guy.


    I like this dress for $50. I would have to work 10


    long hours for this dress. And....how many 'special' dates could I have with this 'special' guy?? I could only wear it 1 or 2 times if this 'special guy' is


    the 'one'. So...no. It's not worth it. I would go for something less expensive and more versitle where I


    could mix and match with other pieces I already have


    and could have lots of 'special' dates.





    Money advise I've given my children....


    When they got their first job....this is what I would


    have them do with their check.


    1/3 room and board....to me [actually went for savings bonds for them].


    1/3 spending on themselves.


    1/3 savings.





    Taught them at a young age....that all the money you make....you can't keep. So...the money you can keep...you have to make it grow.
    How about the best discovery? Live under your means. You don't need a flashy new car, you don't need the latest gadget. If you can live under your means and stay relatively debt free, you have a lot of flexability and freedom in your life. When you are in debt your options are limited.
    My Dad told me to max out my 401(k).
    ';A penny saved is a penny earned.';
    I know it sounds very generic, but the best advice is to become educated about money in general. Knowledge is power, especially with how legalistic contracts have become.





    Generally though:


    Don't borrow money you can't pay back.


    If you want something, save up for it, don't buy it on credit (except for cars and houses of course).





    Keep a budget, so you know where you can cut expenses and where your money goes.





    Save for retirement!
    It is easier to use 9/10 of your money wisely. The very first one tenth of your monies spent ought to be given to your church for your tithe back to GOD!
    You can always SPEND money.
    there is no bad investment ... only bad investors... know what ever it is ur investing in know it better than u know ur self and then be agressive about it... do not save..... the best thing ever said is.....';there is no bad investment.......real estate'; period!!!! look up the richest people in the world they aren not people who are general investors in stocks..... real estat is ur answer again.
    ';invest 10% of every dollar you earn'; Dave Chilton, the wealthy Barber. If you haven't read it. I suggest you do.

    What are the best advice during an open call at a modeling agency to get signed?

    Make sure your skin looks as good as it can - drink tons of water and use moisturizer. Stand up straight - you'd be surprised how many girls are rejected due to poor posture. Don't neglect your nails - keep them short with clear or neutral polish.





    Wear something that shows off your body - skinny jeans, heels and a fitted top are fine. Make sure you can really walk in high heels as you will usually be made to walk back and forth a few times in front of the bookers. Also practice posing in the mirror to find your best angles as they will take Polaroids of you.





    But really, it's just about having the look they want - either you have it or you don't. Most open calls will have anywhere from 50-200 girls, all tall and slim, and only 3-5 may be lucky enough to get a callback and 1-2 might eventually be signed.





    Be careful as there are a lot of scams out there. Remember, no legitimate agency will charge you even $1 to get started. Legitimate agencies do not charge you for portfolio/comp card photography, registration fees, competitions, website listings, classes or anything else. They will cover all your expenses, and pay for it by taking a % of your earnings.What are the best advice during an open call at a modeling agency to get signed?
    Just be outgoing! :D


    Wear something that is stunning


    something that shows off your body :)


    Do your hair!


    Less makeup! :D


    Just be yourself :)
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    I only have about 5k-10k to start with so I was guessing I would go with Charles Schwab being that they have lower mins. My economics teacher said index funds were the best way to go - any opinions on this? Any advice?


    Thanks!What's the best advice you can give to a first time investor?
    This site will help you learn proper investing principles.





    http://www.saveyournestegg.com/diy.htmlWhat's the best advice you can give to a first time investor?
    First. Investing in options like the last guy said is terrible advice. Options are not bad, but they are difficult and not for a beginner. 85% of options expire worthless. What you invest in depends on your goals and commitment. Stocks are good if you enjoy that type of thing and are willing to spend a lot of time learning and doing research. Index funds are good if you have less time or want a more hands off approach. Mutual funds are a lower on the list than index funds because of the higher fees. (A very well managed mutual fund is better than an index fund, but they are few and far between). Bottom of the list is CD's and bonds because of the lousy return.
    Without having more information about your personal information, such as age, current income and other data such as risk tolerance, martial status, and demographics it would be very inappropriate for me or any other person to provide specific information in this type of media





    There are thousands of people just like you that are, or were looking to invest and those that did buy Mutual Funds. One purpose of mutual funds is to help investors like you, who are either just entering the investment world or who have no experience investing.


    Fund companies have an entire array of products many will fit your needs.


    You can go to the MSN.Money website it has an entire section on mutual funds. Read about the various funds and in doing so you will be getting investment ideas and at the same time educating yourself about investing.





    The cheapest broker is not always the best one that meet your needs. Try to stay with some of the larger ones, and if your buying only funds, the cost should be same regardless of what firm you use.


    The only advantage of using brokerage firms for mutual fund investments is that you can invest in various fund families very economically.





    Unless your teacher if very active in the market place I would not put much credence in any advice the teacher gives, especially an economics teacher. The world of academia is a lot different than reality.
    Well, personally, I would stay away from mutual funds. About 75% of them under perform the market. All of them have management fees and some have sales loads. There are better options available.





    May I suggest looking into DRIP Plans or ETF's.





    Best of Luck
    Read and research. Maybe try option trading? More leverage and especially good in volatile markets.





    I decided to invest my money in a home business.





    Check out my experiences (good and bad) with various home businesses http://youtube.com/watch?v=i5ZMgycKRPQ
    Start with the most safe investment, and learn more about stock market. You can choose your strategy from fundamental analysis and technical analysis.
    Index funds funds are safe and boring


    Try and learn about the market in and outs


    It really pays if you do some homework
    I agree that index funds are very good way to go.





    It is best to never, ever invest in any ';single stocks';. But if you cannot resist the urge to do so, invest no more than 10% of your total portfolio in single stocks. The more money you have in single stocks, the higher your risk of losing money.





    Diversification is what you must always remember to do...don't put all, nor most, of your money in one place.....the more spread around it is, the lower your risk...and higher your profits.





    www.morningstar.com is one of my favorite places to do research about stocks.


    Also, I would go to www.daveramsey.com and read what he says about how to invest, which is to invest only in mutual funds.

    What's the best advice about getting / keeping motivated anyone has ever told you / you could tell anyone?

    I want to be more disciplined, but my motivation lacks -- I need to know what I can do to beat it!What's the best advice about getting / keeping motivated anyone has ever told you / you could tell anyone?
    These two quotes keep me on track:





    ';The only thing it takes for the world to fall into darkness is for the good men and women of the world to do nothing.';





    and





    ';Who must do the hard things? He who can.';What's the best advice about getting / keeping motivated anyone has ever told you / you could tell anyone?
    Someone once told me that the only person in my way was ME....it changed everything!
    to keep urself motivated set a goal for ur self and after u have completed this goal treat yourself to something good such as icecream. I can also compete against someone else who has the same or a similar goal.
    I found a site were a woman wrote about her weight loss...she said she used to eat today and hope that tomorrow would be better. Finally she realized that ';tomorrow is today, and what you do today affects your tomorrow.';
    You get out of life what you put into it.
    Son woman luv a man with a good sense of humorand a good body.(lol)
    No one going to do anything for you. You need to do it for yourself.Then my dad kick me out of his home. That was the best motivation ever. So i join the army. In the boot camp(all males)Drill Sgt said this. Man pussy are not needed in the world. A man who want pussy are. There they are the two motto I live by.
    if you never try you will never know just what you are worth





    never give up.
    try to write to your self notes, as reminder


    tell your self,, why did you started ? what you want !


    and stick some place you can watch it every day





    good luck !
    tell yourself I WILL BE MOTIVATED!
    Just do it. Seriously. Put yourself on automatic pilot and no matter how you feel, do it anyways while ignoring any feelings until it's done.





    It's really hard, but it WORKS.
    Think of all the girls out there unable to get to know your gold personality because it's hidden underneath a thick layer of meat.





    Think of your age right now, think of what you've missed because you were fat, your childhood, all the things you could have done back then ...but couldn't.... the people staring at you... the beach...





    %26lt;%26lt;Our greatest glory consists not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.%26gt;%26gt;





    Think of what lies before you; you can get everything back. It is never too late to loose weight. Fill your heart with hope and keep going , and you will find that within 3 weeks you've risen and made great results.





    Every passing minute is another chance to turn it all around!!


    if you do crunches for a minute every day... (for starters)


    .... you'll see results very soon I'm sure.
    Simple...Never Give Up..
    GET YOUR ***- IN -GEAR! !!!!!!!!!!!AND IF YOU ARE DOING BAD THINGS.. STOP-IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOW!!!!!!!
    ';whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger';


    ';weaknesses are meant to be capitalized on, not for you to stay the same';
    Find a workout buddy. That way, you can motivate each other.
    Someone told me that i can do anything if i try and i keep that in mind everytime i got to stay motivated.

    What is the best advice you can give to a new science student?

    I'm going to university soon to study nutrition (applied science). Was hoping to get some tips from former science students on how to make the learning/memorizing/commiting go a little more smoothly.What is the best advice you can give to a new science student?
    Find another career unless you want to relocate to China or India. The future of industrial research in the USA is pretty bleak.What is the best advice you can give to a new science student?
    Don't be discouraged if you don't ace your first exam. Find a particular style of studying that suits you, and then do it over and over. Studying is how I got through all the difficult science courses I had to take throughout college. And when I got to grad school, studying was so second nature, I wouldn't even have to make myself do it. If you don't get something and can't figure it out, make sure to make friends in each class to call and consult with. If that fails, seek out the professor and/or teaching assistant. There is really no way you should not succeed if you have motivation to do well. (My method of study for chemistry was three or four nights before the test, I would go to an open academic building, use their blackboard and write out reaction after reaction after reaction until I felt very comfotable with every kind.) Good luck
    Have plenty of men.....
    1. Study habit. If you want to do very well in your classes, prepare yourself to having little or no social life. It sucks, but this is your career. Sacrifices have to be made.


    2. Read the book. It will be boring, but it pays off in the end.


    3. Note cards. Those saved my life


    4. If possible, be the professor's new best friend. Don't hesitate to go to his office and unload your questions. It is his job to make sure you make it through.

    Best Advice?

    What's the best advice you were ever given? Who gave it to you?





    Share your story!Best Advice?
    talk less, listen more. My pastor, my sister tooBest Advice?
    wash your face before going to bed.


    my mom told me that when I was 5.


    so when you get older you will have a nice face with not so much acne.
    To stop smoking.. it ruins your health.. well it never helped cause im still smoking.. : - )
    get over him

    Best advice?

    what do you do when you asked on at dat and you dont no where to take the special lady due to the fact you have been of the dating seen for awhile?Best advice?
    I understand that being out of dating scene is hard to get back into. I have been out of the scene for 26 years and have recently left the abusive relationship I had lived with for 26 years. I am now in the dating scene and when asked on a date by a special man I have met. I try to keep an open mind and maybe he takes me to a place I never been before. I try to keep focused on the guy or in your case the lady. A dinner is a nice date, or just spending time in conversation with that special person. A date does not have to be intimidating, for if the person asks you out there are already interested in getting to know you better. Take life by the horns and reenter let life bring you happiness.Best advice?
    My best advice to you is to learn how to speak clearly so she understands what the heck you're saying!
    The beach. Take her to the beach!

    Best advice...?

    Best advice you ever got...?Best advice...?
    dont get angry, get even.Best advice...?
    trust in no one but yourself and you'll never be disapointed





    don't expect others to do or help you with anything just do it yourself and it'll get done ad get done right ...
    ';think deep first before you make desicions and and have no regrets';
    Don't hit the *****!
    Ya better get started.
    Doesnt matter rather you win or lose as long as you fought the battle.... I like this one , it has alot of meaning for me. My son's father is in carcerated and I've rode with him 19 months but im tired of waiting and this is the quote he told me to always remeber... He is a true friend
    Don't expect anything and you won't ever be disappointed.
    Feel with your heart not with your brain.
    don't smoke
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    ok so i'm moving and i dont exactly knoe when


    i really wanna move cuz wher eim moving is where my sister goes to college


    and i reallllllllly wanna move cuz my life here isnt that good (school wise-i hate everyone there..there are all so fake)


    so lets say im in indiana and im moving to california(im putting this as an example)


    now the only thing thats holding me back is the fact that if i move im only moving with my mom


    my dad has to stay here because of his buisness


    so im not really sure if i should really move


    but my parents are like all about getting a divorce


    i dont like it but i really wanna be by my sister when i go through it


    advice about if im doing the right thing by telling my mom i want to move sooner and advice about anything else you find neccessaryBest advice???
    What does this all mean? You just did my head in with that pile of GIBBERISH.





    Only you know where you want to be. So sit down and think about it.Best advice???
    That's OK It's hard sometimes. specially when your young.

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    Sorry. I dont ahve any advice about moving, but im in ca and my dad lives in indy. he keeps wanting me to live their, but my mom doesnt want me to and neither do i so im not.but, like, EWW. never!!!
    dude i jus moved to indiana and i dont really like indiana idk bout the other stuff
    Wow, the 'fruit' sure doesn't fall far from the tree, in YOUR family!





    Look, the kids in California will be the exact same as the kids where you are. Been there, done that, as my father served in the US Air Force and we moved about 14 times in his 20 year career.





    Your parents are practicing talking about divorce, like most couples do when they start to get bored in a relationship because they are too stupid to realize that if they spent a tenth of that energy in healing, growing, learning, they would have everything that they are about to throw away, plus the huge attorney fees!





    Unfortunately, this will all happen, and you will go to California (VERY jexpensive and weirdo place, full of 8 million people who don't even speak Ehglish, and who steal cars, and are illegal, and crowd the hospitals with their knife and gunshot wounds)! Then, in about a year, will return to Dad, because you are too stupid to fit in anywhere.





    You blame others for your own inadequacies.





    Just like your parents!





    Fruit....tree... falls...

    Best Advice?

    What's the best advice you have ever received or the best advice that you want to share?Best Advice?
    Best piece of inspirational talk (advice loosely covers this, I feel) actually came from a kid's fantasy story.





    The ship's crew is going through an emotion storm that makes them all hurt inside and they all curl up and cry, and the enormous, wise old bird who's guiding the flying ship (fantasy, remember) says to the young captain





    ';This too will pass.';





    And it's just always stuck with me. Whenever I'm going through a rough patch, I just try to sit back and understand that however bad things are, they will get better. In a way, I think it's similar to the Buddist Wheel of Life or somesuch, where all emotions and experiences follow each other, but I didn't appreciate this philosophical parallel when I read the book as a ten year old.Best Advice?
    Be generous: to your friends, to your family, to your time to your life.
    life is like a roller coster there are many ups and downs but at the end is a stop(meaning every problem you face will come to an end one day)
    Make new friends but keep the old ones, one is silver and the other's gold.
    don't spit into the wind

    Best advice?

    Don't take any, do your own thing.Best advice?
    be happy...Best advice?
    Best adivce given: Love is a two way street. You have to be loved back for it to work.





    Best advice told: Don't worry about the small stuff you can fix. Worry about the problems you are unable to fix. Less Stress... (It works, cause most people can fix any problem that comes their way)
    Umm.... yes please?





    Ooooooh, I get it. Sorry, blonde moment. Oops.





    Best advice I can give is to do what makes you happy in life, because otherwise there's no point to it.
    Keep your nickers on!
    Do to others what you would want them to do to you. if I had only learned this in my childhood I might have been a better person and saved my self a lot of grief and had I been Loved I would know how to Love and I know I am not alone in this.
    Best advice I've been given is to go for things when I want them and take every opportunity in life. You don't want to end up having missed out on something just because you were scared of looking an idiot or of doing it wrong.





    Currently wishing I followed my own advice. Why didn't I kiss that guy? Lol.
    Be thankful for what you do have not ungrateful for what you dont have.


    Keep a nickel between your knees lol and be kind to everyone unless they are mean, then dont stand for it.
    go out with a lot of hookers.
    Be personally responsible for your own orgasms~
    dont live for the moment


    Live as if your going to live forever, and want to have the chance to live for the moment in the future.
    life's a risk, don't try to change that
    live, laugh and love
    Not from me,,
    Let it go.

    Best advice?

    Whats the best encouragement,supportive,friendly,self help,motivational help you can give someone who really dislikes life and wants to give up but cant do it, because they dont believe in suicide but they are basically living to die anyway,





    what can you say to help someone like that? What can you say so they want to go out there and enjoy life, what can you say to someone who has no friends and finds it hard to meet new people or have a reason to leave the house?





    I guess, what can you say to give hope to someone like this?Best advice?
    Tell them that whatever it is...hope dies last. Someone really special once told me that and it's stuck ever since. Try figuring out what the person really likes and practice it often, to do something constructive and progressive, maybe for a purpose. Find one if lost one.Best advice?
    Here are some words of wisdom from Henry Miller:





    ';Life moves on, whether we act as cowards or heroes. Life has no other discipline to impose, if we would but realize it, than to accept life unquestioningly. Everything we shut our eyes to, everything we runaway from, everything we deny, denigrate or despise serves to defeat us in the end.


    What seems nasty, painful, evil, can become a source of beauty, joy, and strength if faced with an open mind. Every moment is a golden one for him who has the vision to recognize it as such.';





    I think the point he's making is that you are here - make the best of it! Put in the effort to make your life count. Don't squander the opportunity by feeling sorry for yourself and giving up. Your life is what you make it.
    There is no point in hating life or yourself. You are who and what you are, and life is just life. Find the things that meet with your happiness and enjoy them as much as you can.
    You can tell that person that you genuinely care and want to do your best to help them lead a better life. Then, even if you are not this person's close friend, you can provide support by giving resources and encouraging him/her to seek counseling. You can even drive them there. I think a good first step is to show your genuine concern and then ask them what you can do to help them take the first step towards improving the situation.

    Best advice?

    what's the best advice you can give me for hair growth?Best advice?
    I'll help you because of your name. Take pre-natal vitamins they make everything grow fast. Also hair is protein. My hair too was chopped off and I'm sad because it's much to short for me.Best advice?
    use the right hair products and make sure you are getting enough vitamins that help hair grow!!
    Put some bergamont drops in your shampoo. This will aid hair growth.
    put a filter before the shower head.
    to just lie with it...it is a natural production on your body. and keep it clean
    Don't microwave in plastic;...this will inhibit hair growth; causes Early Male Pattern Baldness (something like that---makes you bald on the head). Also there's a difference between ';Laureth'; and ';Laurel'; (ask a cosmetologist which is good and which causes baldness). Rogaine is good, but as I understand it, once you start using it---you cannot stop. (I wondered why anyone would stop if they have a serious issue with this!?)
    cleanliness first comes then protect ur hair from u.v rays of strong sun light,dont use too much hair styling treatments,massage ur hair perfectly with oil atleast once in a week.eat nutritious food and drink lots of water.not only ur body but also ur hair reflects what u eat.

    What is the best advice you'd give for the next generation? What is the best advice you got growing up?

    Do you remember when you were growing up and someone told you something that really stuck in your mind?


    There are moments in out life that clearly define who we become or what decisions we make in the future.Do you remember your ';epiphany'; moment?


    Based on your past experiences, positive or negative, what advice would you give to the next generation?What is the best advice you'd give for the next generation? What is the best advice you got growing up?
    Its a classic, but ' Do onto others as you would have them do onto you'. I was told this by my nan growing up and never really gave it a second thought, once I got a little older and understood the world a little bit more, I realised this makes more and more sense.


    I don't do it myself all the time, its not as easy as it sounds, but.......think how this would change the world if everyone took that advice, it'd be problems solved I think, as daft as it sounds.
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    Can a company dismiss me if I turn down an internal offer to a new location? What is the best thing to do?Best advice?
    they can't say ';hey you're fired cuz you wont move'; but they surely can make things 'uncomfortable' or inconvienent for you and they will get you to resign





    or they may find other reasons to fire you


    ex: they NOW notice you are late often, taking extended lunches, not performing, etcBest advice?
    You should always check out a new location before you move there because it could be the end of your career why are they moving you there? Is it failing and the other workers want to bail out or is the generally opportunities there for you.


    An offer means you can accept of reject it.


    On the other hand if the entire company is moving to Germany or something like that then you either move too or quit so you get what i mean its all about the circumstances.
    Yes they can. Take the offer.
    If you are doing a good job and your present job is not being eliminated then they should continue to employ you.

    What's your best advice for a first time home buyer?

    My husband and I are beginning to look for our first house! We are very excited, and are nervous too. We know that we need to look past decor and more at the condition of the house, but what is your best advice based on your experiences?What's your best advice for a first time home buyer?
    my best advice... since I made this mistake....





    LOOK AT A LOT OF HOUSES!!!!





    don't just look at three or four and pick the best one go to about 30-40 houses at least... then you can get your feel of what you like, don't like, and could live with, or can't live without...





    this will make your buying expirience much more enjoyable because you will know what to look for in a house... and when you find the right one... or the one that you can make your own.. you will know....





    Good luck and congrats on joining the rest of us slaves to the home-ownership grindWhat's your best advice for a first time home buyer?
    go to mortgage broker(s), 2-3, GET THE HOUSE INSPECTED., Its a buyers market right now, you can be picky, there are 4,000,000 more houses for sale this year then there was last year, also negotiate Realtor try to get money from seller at closing..
    Any offer should contain a clause allowing you to have the home inspected and found satisfactory by a qualified home inspection company.
    Wait until January to maximize your tax advantage of owning a home. After that it is personal taste and the neighborhood that will effect your satisfaction.
    Do not also forget the financial aspect. Make sure you compare all the lenders in the market place. A good rate at this time should be around 6.5%. Here is free tool to compare the various rates:


    http://goaddr.com/8jk


    Good Luck %26amp; happy days!
    Make sure you use a professional Realtor. Don't worry about how the property looks -- that is just cosmetic. Have a property inspection performed so you know the property is structurally sound. You want a property in a good location. If the property has the square footage you need, then you can decorate it any way you like. Remember you can take your time fixing the house up the way you like. And most importantly, JUST DO IT!!!. It's the best decision you will make.





    Good Luck and Happy House hunting....
    Do some legwork in researching the planned development of your town. Even if an area is not where you plan on living , look into a purchase in that area. Repair as many things as your budget will allow and preferably do the repairs yourselves. Things like an in ground sprinkler which you can learn at Home Depot for free, a porch or red wood fence to name a few. If possible , use some savings and double up on payments. This sounds like punishment but what will happen before your very eyes is that an unkempt piece of real estate suddenly shows some character and if your research is correct , the neighborhood will be showing signs of improvement thanks to the city planners. When the time is right , you can offer the home FOR SALE BY OWNER and pocket an real nice profit which will make your next purchase , a dream home that will bind your new family with an unbreakable strength.Good Luck.
    1. Don't be afraid to say no to, you will always find a better house.





    2. Put as much down as you can to get a lower rate.





    3. Pay a little extra every month on the mortgage. This can save over $50,000 over the years, depending on the price and rate. This is especially important in the first few years.
    Put 20% down so you don't have to pay mortgage insurance.





    Interview your realitor before hiring to make sure he/she will be an advocate on your behalf and has a lot of experience negotiating contracts. It could make $1000's worth of difference. They also need to be a teacher so you understand each step of the process.





    Get a home inspection.





    Ask for a home warrenty for a year at the seller's expense. That way if any of the items that convey (come with the house) break, you have a way to get them repaired.





    If you are thinking about making an offer on a house, knock on a few doors in the neighborhood an interview the people who live there. Ask what do they think about the area, do they know people on the street, how's the crime, noise, etc.





    Drive potential neighborhoods at night, on the weekend, etc. to get an idea of what it is like at different times.





    Prequalify for your loan so when you find what you want, you can go right into escrow.





    If you don't understand something, ask. Keep asking until you understand. This includeds fees too.





    Buy low--it is amazing what we ';qualified'; for when we bought our first house. We bought at a price we knew was reasonable for us to afford and still live too--think that the payment (including taxes, interest, insurance and principle) should be 25-35% of your take home pay. If it is more than that, you end up ';house poor';--a lot of value in your house but no money in the bank.





    Get a fixed rate mortgage, the smaller number of years the better. Mortgage rates are going up and, while adjustable rate mortgages may seem cheaper in the beginning, they will cost a ton later. The less years you take out, the less you pay in interest over time.





    Look for the desperate seller--someone whose house has been on the market for months, whose house is in forclosure, who is being transferred, etc. and give them a low bid. Wait for a great deal!
    Since your moving in February, it seems you have already made a First Time Home Owner Purchase, or put up a Good Faith Deposit, sometimes called Earnest Money. If this is true, its too late to be asking for advice. However, if you haven't made any commitment, or put up the earnest money, then some advice would be;


    A) Consider using a ';Buyers Agent';, instead of a regular Realtor. The buyers agent interest is in protecting you, the buyer.


    B) When you have decided to put up earnest money, have typed into the Contract that you will be refunded your earnest money if; The Home Inspection and your Home Loan is found - (Here comes the magic word) ';Unsatisfactory'; To You. Another way to put this is - The Home Inspection, and The Home Loan must be found ';Satisfactory'; to you. Either of the two words is your way out of the contract, if you so choose to be.


    C) Get a Home Inspection with a written copy for you record. You can even add into the contract, that if the home inspection fails, the homeowner must pay the cost of that inspection.


    D) Know ';All'; the yearly taxes, in some areas taxes are paid twice a year.


    E) Are you considering a ';Historical'; area? If so you should have a full understand of what that means, for whenever you decide to do improvements.


    F) Ask for a Home Warranty from the seller, it never hurts to ask.


    G) Contact your car insurance company, and tell them where you want to live, and ask if that area is considered as ';Red Lined';. If the answer is yes, you will be paying heightened home and auto insurance premiums, or they may even choose to cancel your vehicle insurance. Also, if you can get your House and Auto Insured by the same company, you will be entitled to a discount, in most cases.
    1. If you know the area ideal time to buy is Winter since sales are low and sellers are more motivated to sell at a lower price.


    2. Get a good real estate agent and interview several. Choose the person who best knows the tract you like.


    3. Be patient. Prices are falling and you need to balance the price of a lower house with rising mortgage rates.


    4. Go for a 15 or 30 year loan. Avoid any ARM or interest only type loans.


    5. As others say - definitely get your own home inspector. Don't hesitate inspecting the house carefully yourself and video tape it when you do. After buying a home things you thought were there sometimes disappear (e.g., wasn't there an over-the-range microwave before?? :) )


    6. Look at the area carefully - railroads, freeways, schoos, etc. One place I bought was near a chicken farm and twice a year when they slaughtered the chickens - wow - what a stench.


    7. Talk to the neighbors. Sounds dorky but it works.


    8. Don't overstretch your budget. Too many people assume their growing incomes will cover the costs but that doesn't always work out.





    Most importantly think practically and don't let emotions for a particular house affect you judgement.
    Just make sure that your are going to buy a house in a good provinse and make sure the payments also just make sure that facilities are as it is
    Save money for a down payment.


    Cars paid.


    Credit card paid.


    ALWAYS get a fixed interest mortage, so you will know what you will pay for 15/30 years.


    Look a lot of houses and negotiate the price.





    Save money for closing and basic furniture, (believe me, your old furniture in a new house.... you will see that everything looks bad in the new house).





    Good luck in your search, be patient with each other.
    I have recently bought my first home, a tidy 3bdrm, garage (etc) and geeeee it was hard. I have a partner full time job, so do I and still I wished that we cleared all our debt 1st and had at least $20,000 deposit. So mate have a firm stable job, a great relationship and communication with your partner and a deposit, cause in the end you'll be paying your interest 1st then you can do with your house what you want. Till then it'll be the Banks. Good Luck guys. Hey, its hard but worth it.Home is where the heart is.
    You definitely need a good real estate agent. A really good website to browse local real estate/real estate agents is: http://www.idxbroker.com/news/256_IDX,_I鈥?/a>





    (just click on your state)





    It's really easy to navigate and is full of info about realtors with links to their personal websites, which will have all the available homes/rentals in the area, so you can check them out before you contact anyone. good luck ;)
    1. Use a realtor, and make sure they don't try to 'sell' you a house... make sure they represent your best interests. The word 'Agent' means representation... many realtors would rather sell (like a car salesman... they don't represent anyone but themselves). Beware if they are only showing you their own listings... they are just trying to get a bigger commission.





    2. Get a 3rd party inspection... hire them yourself!





    3. Make sure you can afford the payments... if your new house payment will be $1000/month, practice for 3-4 months using that amount (put it in a savings account). This way you won't surprise yourselves on how expensive it is.





    4. Don't let the title company put too little in escrow for your taxes... they estimate your monthly payments, and if they are off by $100/month, you'll get a bill for $1200 at the end of the year... that really, really is depressing. Trust me... don't let this happen





    5. Don't ever let the realtors know your true feelings (even your own realtor)... if you say things like, ';This house is just PERFECT';, you will lose all leverage when negotiating. Instead, be calm and cool, and when you make a low-ball offer, be 100% prepared to walk away if they don't take it. Seriously, if you leave, they'll call you back in a day or two (or an hour or two).





    6. Don't offer too little... Sellers are easily insulted and can take offense. For example, if the house is prices at $200,000, dont make an offer at $150,000... that'll just hack them off.





    7. If you look for houses online, beware of the phone numbers on the listings... 99% of the time it is a number to an agent that has never seen the property. The residential real estate marketing system is the largest interconnected system in the world. Every listing is available online by 100,000 agents. It is actually very difficult to figure out who the real listing agent is (unless you are a realtor).





    Good luck.